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An Uncontested Vs. Contested Divorce
In an ideal situation, the divorce case is uncontested if both parties can agree on all issues involved. You can count your blessings if this happens in your case. This will help relieve alot of stress that comes with a typical, heated divorce and save you and your wife alot of money. It is better on everyone (especially your kids) if the divorce can proceed peacefully without long, drawn out court hearings. These days with the power of the internet, an uncontested divorce can be taken care of fairly easily and without the need to retain a divorce attorney.
A popular site that handles every aspect of an uncontested divorce is CompleteCase.com. If you are lucky enough to be in this situation, they are the perfect resource. They guide you through the whole process and help make sure that everything is done right and quickly. No divorce is good, but an uncontested divorce is by far the best case scenario.
But then there is the issue of a "contested" divorce where both parties cannot seem to come to some sort of agreement on all issues involved in their case. This is what I refer to as the worst case scenario, because it almost always involves divorce attorneys, court time, long mediations, and a lot of added stress. Not to mention that is the most expensive route to go during a divorce.
There are all kinds of reason why a divorce can be contested. Some of the most common include the grounds for the divorce, the division of assets accrued during the marriage, alimony payments, payment of family debts (who owes what), child custody, visitation rights, health insurance, and the list goes on and on. It only takes one unsettled issue for the divorce to be contested, regardless of how small it may seem.
The only good news about a contested divorce is that, if at any time during the divorce proceedings, an agreement can me reached then the attorneys can file for an "uncontested divorce". At this time, the courts will accomodate both parties and hold an expedited hearing, and the divorce can be finalized rather quickly. Otherwise, you are at the mercy of typically backed-up court system that can draw out the divorce for quite some time.
So in short, if there is any chance that an agreement can be made, it is in the best interest of both of you to try for it. And if that agreement can be made prior to getting the divorce attorneys involved then it will probably be the smoothest route to take (not to mention, the least expensive)!
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